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The Fantasy Bond & Societal Violence
Fred Branfman interviews Dr. Robert Firestone about the fantasy bond and societal violence.
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What is a Fantasy Bond?
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Author Tamsen Firestone describes how fantasy bonds can form early in life and go on to replace real love in an adult relationship. Visit our website: www.psychalive.org/ Join us on Instagram: psychalive Join us on Facebook: PsychAlive Join us on Twitter: PsychAlive
Experts at Home - Robert Neimeyer on Coping with Grief
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In this Experts at Home conversation, Dr. Robert Neimeyer joins Dr. Lisa Firestone to talk about coping with grief during Covid-19. Visit our website: www.psychalive.org/ Join us on Instagram: psychalive Join us on Facebook: PsychAlive Join us on Twitter: PsychAlive
Experts at Home: Dr. Katayune Kaeni on the Mental Health of New Parents
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For people who are becoming parents during this pandemic, life is presenting a new set of challenges that go beyond the already huge shifts one faces when having a baby. In this Experts at Home conversation, Dr. Lisa Firestone talks with Dr. Katayune Kaeni (Dr. Kat) about caring for maternal and perinatal mental health in this uncertain time. Visit our website: www.psychalive.org/ Join us on In...
Experts at Home: Dr. Gia Marson on Eating Disorders
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In this Experts at Home conversation, Dr. Gia Marson joins Dr. Lisa Firestone to discuss the struggles many people face around food and body image as well as how current challenges are impacting eating disorders. Visit our website: www.psychalive.org/ Join us on Instagram: psychalive Join us on Facebook: PsychAlive Join us on Twitter: PsychAlive
Experts at Home: Dr. Risa Ryger on Helping Families Cope During Covid-19
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In this Experts at Home conversation, Dr. Risa Ryger joins Dr. Lisa Firestone to discuss the struggles parents and children are facing during Covid-19 and strategies to help families handle tough times. Visit our website: www.psychalive.org/ Join us on Instagram: psychalive Join us on Facebook: PsychAlive Join us on Twitter: PsychAlive
Experts at Home: Dr. Daniel Zamir on Tools for Living in Anxious Times
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In this Experts at Home conversation, Dr. Lisa Firestone talks with Dr. Daniel Zamir about helpful tools for living during anxious times. Visit our website: www.psychalive.org/ Join us on Instagram: psychalive Join us on Facebook: PsychAlive Join us on Twitter: PsychAlive
Experts at Home: Dr. John Draper on Prioritizing Mental Health During Times of Crisis
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In this Experts at Home conversation, Dr. Lisa Firestone talks with Dr. John Draper, the Project Director of the SAMHSA-funded National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. They discuss mental health challenges during Covid-19 and the value of prioritizing mental health during times of crisis. Visit our website: www.psychalive.org/ Join us on Instagram: psychalive Join us on Facebook: fa...
Experts at Home: Dr. Bonnie Goldstein on Adolescence During Covid-19
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In this Experts at Home conversation, Dr. Lisa Firestone talks with Dr. Bonnie Goldstein, a licensed social worker, clinical psychologist, and expert in child and adolescent development. Dr. Goldstein discusses the challenges and opportunities of adolescence in the time of Covid-19. Visit our website: www.psychalive.org/ Join us on Instagram: psychalive Join us on Facebook: faceb...
Experts at Home: Dr. Kristen Neff on Self-Compassion
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In this Experts at Home conversation, Dr. Lisa Firestone talks with researcher Dr. Kristin Neff about the importance of practicing Self-Compassion, especially during challenging times such as this global pandemic. Visit our website: www.psychalive.org/ Join us on Instagram: psychalive Join us on Facebook: PsychAlive Join us on Twitter: PsychAlive
Experts at Home - Drs. Nicole Cammack & Danielle Busby on Black Mental Health
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In this Experts at Home conversation, Dr. Lisa Firestone talks with Drs. Nicole Cammack & Danielle Busby about Black Mental Health. Drs. Cammack & Busby are two of the founders BlackMentalWellness.com, a website with the mission to provide access to evidence-based information and resources about mental health and behavioral health topics from a Black perspective, to highlight and increase the d...
Experts at Home: Drs. Jeff Greenberg & Sheldon Solomon on Terror Management Theory
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Join two of the founders of Terror Management Theory, Drs. Jeff Greenberg and Sheldon Solomon, for a conversation with Dr. Lisa Firestone on how fear of our own mortality is currently affecting all humans in the midst of global crisis. Visit our website: www.psychalive.org/ Join us on Instagram: psychalive Join us on Facebook: PsychAlive Join us on Twitter: twitter.c...
Experts at Home: Dr. Les Greenberg on the Power of Understanding Our Emotions
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In this Experts at Home conversation, Dr. Les Greenberg and Dr. Lisa Firestone talk about the value of understanding our emotions, especially during challenging times. Visit our website: www.psychalive.org/ Join us on Instagram: psychalive Join us on Facebook: PsychAlive Join us on Twitter: PsychAlive
Experts at Home: Dr. Dan Siegel on Keeping a Healthy Mind During Challenging Times
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In this Experts at Home conversation, Dr. Dan Siegel and Dr. Lisa Firestone talk about ways to keep your mind healthy during these challenging times, as well as how to maintain meaningful social connections in a time of physical distancing. Visit our website: www.psychalive.org/ Join us on Instagram: psychalive Join us on Facebook: PsychAlive Join us on Twitter: twit...
Experts at Home: Dr. Michael Mantz on Holistic Psychiatry and Mental Wellness
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In this Experts at Home conversation, Dr. Lisa Firestone talks with psychiatrist Dr. Michael Mantz about holistic psychiatry and mental wellness. The conversation is rich with practical advice on developing healthy habits to enhance mental health. Visit our website: www.psychalive.org/ Join us on Instagram: psychalive Join us on Facebook: PsychAlive Join us on Twitte...
Experts at home: Kevin Hines on the Mental Health Crisis and Getting Help
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Experts at home: Kevin Hines on the Mental Health Crisis and Getting Help
Experts at Home: Dr. Donna Rockwell on the Benefits of Mindfulness in Challenging Times
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Experts at Home: Dr. Donna Rockwell on the Benefits of Mindfulness in Challenging Times
Experts at home: Dr. Pat Love on Relationships During the Time of Covid-19
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Experts at home: Dr. Pat Love on Relationships During the Time of Covid-19
Drs. Nicole Cammack & Danielle Busby on How and When to Talk to Kids About Racism
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Drs. Nicole Cammack & Danielle Busby on How and When to Talk to Kids About Racism
Preview of New eCourse on Love + Connection with Dan Siegel and Lisa Firestone
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Preview of New eCourse on Love Connection with Dan Siegel and Lisa Firestone
How Daring to Love Changed My Relationship
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How Daring to Love Changed My Relationship
The Importance of Vulnerability in a Relationship
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The Importance of Vulnerability in a Relationship
How Fear Can Lead Couples to Form a Fantasy Bond
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How Fear Can Lead Couples to Form a Fantasy Bond
Changing Your Patterns Can Change Your Brain
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Changing Your Patterns Can Change Your Brain
How Overcoming Your Inner Critic Can Improve Your Relationship
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How Overcoming Your Inner Critic Can Improve Your Relationship
How to Notice When Your Critical Inner Voice is Affecting You
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How to Notice When Your Critical Inner Voice is Affecting You
Why Couples Get Into Trouble in Their Relationship
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Why Couples Get Into Trouble in Their Relationship
I need session like that I have exactly same😢
yikes. i'm a zombie.
Women in the United States live by this motto.
I need help here I also have critical internal monologue in which I thinks it's a different person who is controlling me and judging my every move like if I am walking I get inner voice go back to this place and walk again like this or if I am taking anything I have to do this move 3 to 4 times I get voices if I don't do this bad thing happens which I am afraid of and I do this than it don't happen it's soo frustrating can anyone help me here please
Unforgivable a harassment group stalked me every day - burglarized my home - damaged my property- electronic intrusion on all my devices- all accounts hacked- almost 7 years of it - has impacted my brain and health- maybe permanently.
I was also viewing this in terms of neurodivergence as a decent amount of adhd have a more disorganized style, and then you try your best to get out of and expand beyond your issues and stuff and eventually get smacked down and make some mistake that leads to abandonment in something you poured yourself into and in the process of trying to fix your self it’s like you learn so much about people and trying to understand one self and them that the whole f’ing society dosent ever with any amount of research come off in a way that it’s going to meet any of your needs and just use you and spit you out and OMFG there is that side of the internet showing how women and men work, and that while it dosent show you how to have a secure attatchment in relationships(that’s important) even though it does talk a lot of truth of patterns, though can be a bit black and white, and then you you struggle with the fact that apparently you have to play office politics and learn that and then understanding the whole bio/psycho/social/cultural model of causation and then ignoring what the news says but understanding politics from that bio/psycho/social and evolutionary why, cognitive process, behavioral implementation in the physical and social enviroment and the odds are you are at home with one of the parents trying to figure all this out all the while the entire world has been turned into a 3d chess game that no body no institution no religion no country no nothing every gave you any help in navigating and it’s like some days your fighting to fix and others your hopeless and you occilate between a sort of fighting to fix and control what you can and find out what you can and shutting down with a why even try sort of learned helplessness. And it’s like the only option is to start your own company or completely homestead because “fuck others” despite being. hyper extravert, it’s like no end to this. But some things we can make more progress on. And it sucks when there are social skills you can learn that on average make things go better, but because nothing works with everybody 100% of the time, well odds are most things that work with many, don’t work with that one person you have in front of you to practice on.
Tanks. A fantastic Keep it simple and shorts example🫶
This so-called expert is clueless to reality. She should have her license removed for not even knowing the basics. Men struggle far more than women in today's society. Women receive far more help in Western society, and yet many women may continue to struggle due to their own choice, incapacities, etc. And when equality is not enough, they turn to equity to get even more. To feminists, it's all about securing power and that necessarily means that they must be misandrists.
Clonidine can Help, also Propranolol
Not me No children
Nah my inner voice is really a dickhead lol no one talks to me like he does. Voice memos on your iphone... have a conversation with them. Turns out you can just confront that voice and its really frail and insecure. If you dont fight back it just keeps telling you how to think. I started recording myself talking to the voice and it talking back to me.... its crazy the things that this voice was telling me. Finding out you are your biggest hater is quite the revelation.
Could this be why I sabotaged my 25 year marriage with two affairs? I match this attachment theory
So true
Im a psychopath. God fried all of my neurons when he was preparing my first breakfast. // The problem is, i think he did it on purpose. I’m afraid that God….is _just like me._
What I find really confusing is that in my journey to find emotional balance I have ahd to learn over 20 things and unpack multiple things that as a child you would never have to learn if you were in a secure attachment. Why is this?
Katsugan movements are so powerful
❤❤❤ ua-cam.com/video/_SYaFQJMVlw/v-deo.htmlsi=jUyBkVE9haChGjvh
Thank u for this video It resonates with me because growing up my mom would always tell me she wish she would have never had me and my brothers and that I was lucky she didn’t throw me in the trash , abort me or give me up for adoption my mom is not mentally welll but it effected me tremendously
My mom would always tell me when I was growing up “I wish could have done my life over again I only would have had ur older brother ur lucky I don’t throw u in the trash , abort u , or give u up for adoption….. she has paranoid schizophrenia it effected me and my brothers luckily God saved me but trauma is hard to escape
wow. this video is so validating. i'm in the process of analyzing the narrative identity that i completed a few months back, and also changing the most destructive narratives with a support group. i am so grateful rn.
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Reliving unresolved abuse, abandonment and trauma is so true especially when triggered by mirror neurons.
Omg😮
OMG my ex was like this when I would raise my hand
Me
so grateful for this man
I was/am still terrified of my mother. I am 55 years old. I finally went no contact 5 years ago.
Whats he saying? Healing is starting to sound like witchcraft and snake oil at this stage...
Really rings a bell,❤ was diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic 1983 , critical inner voice ran me in into a psych ward ,,,Thanks for the incites 😊
I can't even staand up straight am always in fight/flight. Trying to catch myself and relax but natural state is not good at all. Ruined my whole life....
Suicide is like an evil spirit that enters people 💔
Sounds in line with a lot of Yoga exercises.
Another narcissist playbook video to gaslight others into to thinking they have a mental illness. In reality, they are mentally ill wackos. Try all natural massage therapy. It works.
This can't be your cover when you were the one who pinned me in it
WOW DR. Gill Igan BRUICH WOULD BE PROUD
❤thank you ❤
Just from the way he talks, I sense no bullshit . He is legit. He wants to help people.
He doesn’t explain though what we can do with this understanding. How do we reach the rest and digest state when we’re stuck in the lower two states? I recommend Unlearn Your Pain by Howard Schubiner to resolve past trauma and find safety.
Massage therapy activates rest and digest phase.
Yeah in this case you shut off because you can't be there.
Yes and the way he places past on present like that is just the way many are describing as our multidimentional reality. It made mexslile, just like the reporter, Sonya, Tree of knowledge You tube. Multidimentional reality, one stacked upon another.
What does mean to do not have a world created inside of you?
Fearful avoidant!
I have heard it to my core with the inner critic
Well, if we could actually cocktail all those neurochemicals into one street drug, I imagine it would be like a rollercoaster ride through the depths of hell and the pearly gates of heaven at the same time. You'd be so high that you'd think you were a unicorn flying through a rainbow, but then you'd crash so hard that you'd feel like a snail stuck in molasses. But thank goodness we don't have to resort to that kind of experimentation because our brains are already equipped with the perfect cocktail mixer. It's like having your own personal bartender in your head, constantly serving up delicious shots of dopamine, norepinephrine, anandamide, endorphins, and serotonin. And when we're in flow, it's like we're at the best bar in town, sipping on the most exquisite blend of pleasure drugs that our brains can produce. It's like winning the jackpot in the neurochemical lottery, and we're all in it to win it. So, let's raise a glass to flow, the most addictive experience on Earth. And who needs drugs when you've got a brain that can mix 'em better than any street dealer? Cheers!
This is how a parent with unresolved trauma passes trauma down to the children. 🙁
Making sense of my life after complex trauma is challenging but so worth it. I want to be more comfortable with myself in all environments not just in isolation. I want that sense of vitality in my life again. 👏😊
you can do it, i have faith!
Polyvagal Theory is transdisciplinary and can be combined with many modalities to better inform your clinical practice or trauma-related work. The safe and sound protocol is a practical application of Polyvagal Theory, which helps retune the nervous system to be more regulated and resilient to life's challenges. He states our nervous system is always trying to figure out a way for us to survive, to be safe. I believe this is why a child will freeze and or go into fight or flight, they don't feel safe and can't understand why this is happening to them. A child being restraint will freeze because they are terrified for how they are being treated, this treatment is insane and unjustified. It takes me back to the phrase there is no such thing as a bad child. Because I really believe that children are not being heard and are misunderstood, that their problems are not being seen by such persons as the super nan and or the parents. I have stated in the past that a self-reg program should be offered to parents and payed for, by a worker if the parent is on social assistance, or any family who can't afford it. I believe that if parents and care givers have a better understanding of some problems a child may have, then we can help children have a better life and able to learn to self- regulate for a better future.
Those in power know this already. Why do you think things are the way they are?
I'm fairly certain that in the long run with those money studies, it was actually the people who gave it away that were more depressed. I don't like the answer, but I do remember reading it just last year.
That doesn't sound like my life